'Two friends who share a name navigate their interests and differences in an affirming, gender-neutral picture book that should appeal to both classrooms and caregivers with its empathetic message.
The story’s gender-neutral language is delivered through clear sentences across double-page spreads of bold primary colors with clean lines that keep focus on the children. One Briticism—the use of cross for anger—is the only tell that this title was first published in the United Kingdom. A simple yet inclusive story that is likely to build tolerance, insight, and healthy relationships among young readers'. -- Booklist
'ALEX AND ALEX is an intriguing picture book about two friends.
What I loved: This was a cute, colorful story of friendship. Alex and Alex are each allowed to be themselves and they embrace their differences. From the description, it becomes clearer that this is about acceptance and gender neutrality, which is also a helpful theme for young readers.
The text is brief throughout, and it could work well for young readers who like a quick story that focuses on the illustrations.
Final verdict: Overall, ALEX AND ALEX is a cute picture book about embracing differences and friendship'. -- YA Books Central
'It is clear to me that Ziggy Hanaor’s choice to not make hints to the gender identity of the children is intentional. Because of this, reading Alex and Alex is refreshing and the reader can look at the things the children like to do with a perspective that is freed from gender stereotypes. This book is almost an answer to ‘What if gender was not a thing?’
Ultimately, I believe Alex and Alex offers the reader the gift of lending them a child’s eyes: differences do not matter, friendship and kindness does.
When I read Alex and Alex to my class, they clapped at the end (and I do not think that there could be better feedback than this). They noticed that Alex and Alex like different things and have different personalities and said that it’s funny that they are friends and have the same name.
Alex and Alex would be a great addition to any early years classroom setting and would be a great hook for lessons and discussions about friendship and embracing differences. Furthermore, I believe it would also be a great starting point for older children to reflect upon stereotypes in relation to gender identities'. -- Just Imagine
'We absolutely LOVE this awesome story that celebrates difference, develops acceptance and demonstrates a healthy and happy friendship! My two year loves it but so does my six year old and so do I!' -- Stories for Little Ones
'What a fun book for illustrating gender fluidity!
With its polka dot endpapers and bright primary colors, this cheerful book shows that gender does not matter to good friends. There are no pronouns to indicate gender (the back cover blurb reads “Alex is not a boy, and Alex is not a girl.”) and the Alexes are happy kids with no gender identifiers in clothing or otherwise. One has white skin and one has brown skin, but none of their differences matter'. -- Youth Services Book Review
'We read this book over the festive break and I will be shouting about it forever more! Alex and Alex is the perfect way to explore gender neutrality and gender non-conforming to children. It follows two friends called Alex, neither of whom identify as a boy or girl and each one enjoys a variety of stereotyped ‘boy’ and ‘girl’ toys, activities, and colours.
Alex and Alex is brilliant in its simplicity. My four-year old read the book to me, and it was magical to see her reading this book which shattered gender stereotypes on every page. This is an excellent resource for schools, libraries and communities as well as a book to be shared at home. I can’t recommend it highly enough. Alex and Alex is my first top pick for 2022!' -- Picture Book Perfect
'What a wonderful book that I think every child making their first steps socially should have read to them. Alex and Alex are two friends who illustrate why being yourself is important.
Ziggy Hanaor shares with us all this lovely friendship between two young children and how they explore the world around them. And how they do this is constantly side by side accepting each others likes and dislikes…until one point when the friendship hits a rocky patch.
Ben Javens is quite clever to not provide any real hints regarding gender, which is very much the point. Children will see themselves throughout the story as each page shares a different fun thing to do being enjoyed in bold, bright colours and a playful style.
Now for the teacher bit. Not making how a child sees themselves to be a closed view starts in EYFS. Children need to be encouraged to enjoy activities based on the activity alone, not if it something that has a gender stereotype. Presenting books like Alex & Alex opens up the debate at a level the children can understand.
Like Alex & Alex, everyone should get along and give this story a go'.
-- The Great British Bookworm
