Introduction
The Pledge
1. Sympathy for Oneself
2. Taking the Sunday Blues Seriously
3. The Clues of Childhood
4. The Twelve Pleasure Points of Work
5. Jobs That Leave Me Cold
6. Lives That Make Me Envious
7. Clarification Exercise
8. Visualisation Exercise
9. An Advertisement for Myself
10. Family Scripts
11. Supportive and Unsupportive People
12. Self-sabotage
13. Fixation and Unfixation
14. Evolution Not Revolution
15. We Are (Sort of) Free
16. The Terror of a ‘No’
17. Impostor Syndrome
18. Why Now?
19. Urgency
20. The Agony of Choice
21. A Future Self
22. Success
23. After the Lottery
24. The Duty Trap
25. The Good Child
26. Permission
27. Self-affirmation
28. The Status Quo
29. The Art of Confidence
30. Befriending the Inner Idiot
31. Criticism
32. How Long Is There Left?
33. Readiness for Difficulty
34. Processing the Past
35. Confidence in Confidence
36. We Could Survive
37. I’ve Screwed Up
38. Laying Down Boundaries
39. Do It Now!
40. Beyond Gossip
41. Think Strategically
42. Learn to Be ‘Lazy’
43. You Could Leave School
44. Entrepreneurship
45. Changing the World: Be Utopian!
Conclusion