New Spirit Journal
If we’re lucky and it is in alignment with our soul purpose, we will grow old someday. Many people just stumble into growing older instead of seeing it as the rich time of life it can be. In Our Wisdom Years, Garfield, who is 75, leads readers through a process that can make the difference between getting old and growing older with joy, fulfillment, resilience, and no regrets. Through a series of nine tasks, readers can …gain a clearer sense of who you’ve been, how your choices have shaped you, and what’s at your core… (which) enables you to embrace the freedom of being fully yourself in later life and then in old age. If you’re 50 or older, this book could have a huge impact on your later years. Folks in their 80s and 90s can find a wonderful guide to living meaningfully rather than feeling they have been sent out to pasture. Through doing a life review and learning how to forgive and let go, to living with a grateful attitude, Garfield shares many stories from his own life and that of friends, family, and workshop attendees that brings his ideas to life and grounds them in everyday living. This is definitely a book to be savored, pondered, and digested rather than rushed through. It would make an outstanding book for a book club or study group to use together. With over 25% of the population being 65 or older by 2030, there are a lot of people who could benefit from working and playing with the concepts in Our Wisdom Years. —Krista Gibson
Inviting, illuminating, and informative, Our Wisdom Years offers great inspiration while meeting a growing personal and cultural need: new ways to live our later years with joy and fulfillment. —David Sheff, author of the New York Times #1 bestseller Beautiful Boy
Our Wisdom Years provides a step-by-step guide to growth and development in the autumn of life. Dr. Garfield cuts right through the layers of self-protection we wrap around ourselves to open up the possibilities of living in authentic relationship with our true self, our loved ones, and the mysteries of eternity. The reader will not find ready-made answers here, but what he or she will find instead is Garfield’s gentle, courageous voice, offering creative ideas and practical exercises that serve as guides toward finding one’s own authentic answers to the absolutely unique questions of our lives. This is a book best used by lingering with it, not rushing through—a book of questions each of us might ponder in the silence of the heart until we hear the response of the still small voice within. —Steve Zemmelman, PhD, Jungian Analyst and Associate Clinical Professor, Department of Psychiatry, University of California at San Francisco
Charles Garfield has one of our biggest hearts and wisest minds, and I am privileged to call him a mentor of mine. Our Wisdom Years, a true masterpiece, is a marvelously rich mix of wise counsel and comforting possibility for all of us who are feeling the pull of our later years. It is a profound reflection on aging that offers all those of a certain age, the guidance we'll need to navigate later life with soul and satisfaction. This is a book of immense honesty, courage, and grace. You'll be delighted that you've moved it to the top of your reading list. —Kaushik Roy, executive director of The Shanti Project
Charles Garfield is one of our most open-hearted and intelligent teachers on the subject of aging. His latest book, Our Wisdom Years, is an exciting and illuminating look at the potential we all have to live later life with wisdom, compassion, and courage. This book stands out in its genre as a beacon of guidance and generosity, a genuine gift to all those who have entered their wisdom years. I enjoyed and learned an enormous amount from Dr. Garfield’s latest work. You’ll be extremely glad you’ve read Our Wisdom Years. —Jim Santucci, executive director of Kara
Our Wisdom Years arrived shortly after I turned eighty-two. I’ve lived a fulfilling life, but am all too aware of my age-related declines, and struggling with them. The book is so helpful! I’m underlining most of it. I haven’t done that since college! Garfield’s understanding of my and others’ transitions, understanding from the heart as well as the head, is opening possibilities and easing transitions. Thank you! —Charles T. Tart, PhD, Emeritus Professor of Psychology, University of California at Davis and author of The Secret Science of the Soul
Our Wisdom Years offers a gentle, thorough, and soulful way into life’s deepest and most challenging stage—the path of aging. Although he is an accomplished psychologist with many stories to tell (including, most wonderfully, his own), Dr. Garfield writes like a gentle friend. This book is a guide for the journey into ‘the glorious mess of self,’ at a time in life when self is most poignant. Full of questions to ponder, exercises to engage, and thoughts to contemplate, Our Wisdom Years will help you foster ‘your own relationship to eternity. —Norman Fischer, poet, Zen priest, author, The World Could Be Otherwise: Imagination and the Bodhisattva Path
